The risk isn’t that AI replaces jobs. It’s that AI replaces conversations.
Much of the discussion around AI has focused on productivity, efficiency and automation.
But there is another question organisations should be asking:
What happens when people stop needing each other quite as much?
Human connection at work has traditionally been built through thousands of small interactions: asking for help, sharing ideas, seeking feedback, solving problems together and navigating challenges with colleagues.
As AI becomes more capable, many of those interactions can now happen between a person and a machine.
The evidence is still emerging, but a growing body of research suggests that while AI may improve productivity, it may also reduce some of the human interactions that build trust, belonging and connection at work.
1. Employees are increasingly asking AI instead of colleagues or managers
What the research says
A 2025 survey by Robert Walters found that one-third of Gen Z professionals use AI for workplace questions before asking their manager or colleagues. The same study found that 39% of UK professionals reported asking their line manager fewer questions because they can ask AI instead.
Source:
- Robert Walters / People Management: https://www.peoplemanagement.co.uk/article/1931905/gen-z-turns-ai-managers-answer-workplace-questions-survey-finds
Why this matters for connection
For decades, asking for help has been one of the simplest ways people build relationships at work. It creates opportunities for coaching, collaboration, knowledge sharing and trust-building. When employees turn to AI instead of colleagues, they may get a faster answer, but they miss a human interaction. Multiply that across hundreds of daily decisions and organisations risk losing many of the small conversations that help people feel supported, valued and connected.
2. AI is becoming a preferred source of advice because it feels easier than asking people
What the research says
A Chartered Management Institute survey found that seven in ten managers now turn to AI tools before asking their own boss for advice. Respondents cited speed, convenience and the ability to ask questions without fear of judgement or criticism.
Source:
- Chartered Management Institute coverage in The Times: https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/managers-turning-to-ai-chatbots-for-advice-before-bosses-enterprise-network-lgsfzdl7q
Why this matters for connection
Many workplace relationships are strengthened through moments of uncertainty. Asking for guidance creates opportunities for learning, mentoring and trust. If AI removes the need to approach colleagues or leaders for support, organisations may unintentionally lose some of the interactions that help relationships develop in the first place. Asking for help is also a moment of showing vulnerability – a practice which is again a key part of building mutual trust and connection.
3. AI use is being linked to workplace loneliness
What the research says
Workday’s 2026 Human Connection Workplace Index found that one in five Gen Z employees reported feeling more lonely at work since using AI, with researchers warning of a growing “connection deficit” in AI-enabled workplaces.
Source:
- Workday Human Connection Workplace Index: https://newsroom.workday.com/2026-05-27-New-Workday-Global-Research-Finds-AI-is-Easing-Burnout-but-May-Be-Deepening-a-Connection-Deficit-at-Work
Why this matters for connection
Loneliness at work is rarely caused by being physically alone. More often, it stems from a lack of meaningful interaction, belonging and social support. It’s about not feeling connected. Not feeling like you are seen, heard, valued and trusted. If AI reduces opportunities for collaboration, conversation and shared problem-solving, employees may begin to feel more disconnected from those around them. While AI can assist with tasks, it cannot fully replace the sense of belonging that comes from strong human relationships.
4. People are beginning to use AI for emotional support
What the research says
Workday’s research found that 76% of employees had used AI for advice, 52% for brainstorming and 37% for companionship during the previous year. Many respondents described AI as “judgement-free” and easier to approach than colleagues.
Source:
- Workday Human Connection Workplace Index: https://newsroom.workday.com/2026-05-27-New-Workday-Global-Research-Finds-AI-is-Easing-Burnout-but-May-Be-Deepening-a-Connection-Deficit-at-Work
Why this matters for connection
One of the most important functions of workplace relationships is emotional support. Trusted colleagues, managers and mentors help people process challenges, navigate uncertainty and feel understood. If employees increasingly confide in AI rather than people, organisations may lose opportunities to strengthen trust, empathy and mutual understanding. The result may be fewer authentic human conversations precisely when people need them most. Relationships becoming increasingly surface level – which may work ok when everything is going well – but when things go wrong and deep support is needed, they may not be strong enough to deliver.
5. Some organisations are already seeing weaker coworker relationships
What the research says
Workday’s research suggests AI may be reducing workplace interaction in subtle ways. Since adopting AI, 16% of respondents reported having less patience for small talk and informal workplace conversation. Researchers described this as evidence that AI may be becoming a socially frictionless alternative to colleagues.
Source:
- Workday Human Connection Workplace Index: https://newsroom.workday.com/2026-05-27-New-Workday-Global-Research-Finds-AI-is-Easing-Burnout-but-May-Be-Deepening-a-Connection-Deficit-at-Work
Why this matters for connection
Connection is often built through seemingly insignificant interactions. A quick chat before a meeting, asking for advice, discussing a challenge or checking in with a colleague all contribute to trust and belonging. If AI gradually replaces some of these moments, organisations may become more efficient while becoming less connected.
6. Experts are warning about “false connection”
What the research says
Research from Stanford and Carnegie Mellon University, examining the use of AI companions, found that people with smaller social networks were more likely to seek companionship from AI, but that greater reliance on AI companionship was associated with lower wellbeing and did not fully substitute for human connection.
Source:
- The Rise of AI Companions: How Human-Chatbot Relationships Influence Well-Being: https://arxiv.org/abs/2506.12605
Why this matters for connection
Humans are wired for human connection. While AI can simulate empathy, responsiveness and conversation, it cannot provide genuine reciprocity, shared experiences or authentic relationships. There is a risk that people begin to feel socially satisfied without actually strengthening their relationships with others. Over time, this could reduce the quality and frequency of the interactions that underpin trust, belonging and healthy workplace cultures.
The challenge for organisations
The question is not whether AI should be used at work. The benefits are already clear.
The question is whether organisations are paying enough attention to what might be lost as AI becomes more embedded in daily working life.
If employees ask AI instead of colleagues, seek advice from AI instead of managers, and solve problems with AI instead of teams, organisations may become more productive in the short-term – but the deepening disconnection between colleagues will have a serious long-term impact on trust, communication, innovation, collaboration and – ultimately – profitability.